Abraham Maslow’s Heirarchy of needs

Don’t work only for money!

“To learn how to enjoy work, we must ask ourselves a deeper question why do we work.”  Follow Dr.Raj on twitter  @drraj29 Do we want to spend one-third of our life in sadness, despair, misery and frustration? If the answer is an obvious no, then we need to find ways of making our work a joy, for one-third of our life is spent at work or preparing for it. It is not only one-third of life ­ we must realize the impact of the one-third on the remaining two-third of life. If work has to be joyful, then we must do what we enjoy doing. As the old saying goes if you enjoy your work, you do not have to work. To learn how to enjoy work, we must ask ourselves a deeper question why do we work. Why do we work? Whenever I asked this question, people think that it is a redundant one. But let us realize that work is much more than making money. In this context, we tend to think of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs. The question then is whether we work because we need money, name, fame, status or do we work to satisfy our inner calling, or to contribute towards humanity? Interestingly, whatever might be our drive or need, work is our means to achieve the same. Work is our way to make money, to learn, to express our talents, to have a social interaction, to attain status, to earn respect and so on. When work can give us so much, then our outlook towards work must be that of joy! Work and Joy of Living! If we define what gives us joy, then we can recognize that we tend to use work as a means to joyful living. Also, if we understand what drives us to work, we will automatically be able to identify the factors that do not drive us to work. Such understanding will help analyse the reasons for dissatisfaction with work. Imagine the internal dilemma that one faces after a few years of working ­ what am I doing this for? Is this all for money? Fame? Status? Is it really worth my lifetime? Then dawns the `proper selfishness’ in the words of Charles Handy.They discover themselves, realign their work and move towards joyful living. They have succeeded in making a mid course correction to their life strategy. On the contrary, imagine the plight of those who put this question to themselves a little late in their life. They hardly have an opportunity to redefine the meaning of their work. They end up cursing work, hating their boss and organisation, waiting for weekend and so on. It simply means that they have decided to spend one – third of life only to make money and foregoing the opportunity to derive joy of living! What should one do? Gaining deeper understanding of oneself, articulating personal vision, and remaining goal focused are necessary to embark on a purposeful and joyful living. Individuals may seek professional advice on these aspects to lay a solid foundation to their work. Individuals should also be conscious of other factors that may induce oscillation of thoughts. Seeing success through others’ lens or redefining success from time to time will surely dither the pursuit of joyful working. It does not mean that one needs to be rigid in one’s own definition of goals or means, but any redefinition has to be triggered out of greater self awareness rather than getting generated out of comparison or jealousy! A deep conviction in the vision and strong will power to realize the vision are necessary to overcome any hurdles in the process. Individuals who are able to align work with joyful living are the ones who experience a sense of fulfillment. They are most likely to skip the feeling of emptiness towards the fag end of their lives. The earlier one excavates one’s own drive to work, the better vision towards life. Cases of running after wrong targets will be minimized. We will have individuals who are lot more contented; yet achieving what they wanted. After all, joyful living is what one defines for oneself. Work is a vehicle to pursue the journey of joyful living! It is a sure way of tuning right attitude towards work! This article was published in:  HR Mirror Hans India Follow us on Twitter @hrfootprints

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approaches to career

Many approaches and one career

“While a job has so much of significance in our career and life, it is sometimes perplexing to see how people make career choices.” Everyone needs a job. Joblessness is unimaginable in our lives. Why do we need a job so badly? It could be due to the dire need to survive or to gain a social status to seek self-satisfaction. Those who are familiar with Abraham Maslow’s hierarchy of needs can understand the human motivation and how it keeps a person aspiring different things at different levels. When a person is jobless, he or she is desperate to get some job to make a living. However, it will be interesting to watch the same person getting dissatisfied after sometime in the same job ­ despite making perhaps more money. That is because the nature of the need has changed from mere living to something else. Such is the un-saturating urge of the human being to search for something more than what one has. And job seems to be the vehicle to fulfill various needs and varying needs! While a job has so much of significance in our career and life, it is sometimes perplexing to see how people make career choices. There are many approaches to a career. Let me narrate the story of Ravindra, a person that I met recently. Ravindra completed an MCA (Master of Computer Applications) with no idea as to where it would land him in his career. It has been four years since he did that and to date, he is yet to get any break in career. With every passing year, his confidence is getting affected seriously. I asked him as to why he chose MCA and if had a liking to computer programming.  He replied, “People told me that MCA will get me a job“. My inquiry followed: “Then why are you still looking for your first job after four years? “ “I did some data entry job earlier, but didn’t like it. So I quit and joined another course“ “What was that?“ “Railway recruitment exam course, and other government jobs“ “Why did you change your track?“ “I thought a government job would be secure; but I could not crack it“ “So, urgently you need a job! Then why don’t you widen your choice to include any job beyond computers?“ “Since I did an MCA, it will be nice if I can have a computer job“ I understood how he was trapped in too many contradictions and made his career a complex affair. See below the different approaches to a person’s career. As you go through, you can see which approach Ravindra had adopted. Also, you may find an approach that you followed or likely to follow. You may then think of the pros and cons of your approach. Educational Approach: In this approach, people often follow a rule ­ “Because I did this course, I need to join such job“. They do not question if the course that they did is indeed the right one for their career. Enthusiasm Approach: Here, it is the energy and passion of the person that drives the career choice. If one can choose an employment that fulfills their passion, then it surely is a blessing. It may not be the most rewarding monetarily, yet can give you immense satisfaction. External environment Approach: At different times different industries become fashionable, offering employment opportunities. They may not last forever, but they create a buzz for a few years. Many tend to follow this buzz and make career choices. They may lose shine once the industry goes out of fashion. Envy Approach: Some people choose jobs with an idea of proving a point to someone. It might be a parent who challenged, it might be a friend who insulted or it might be someone who grew faster than you. They inspire career choices. Will the grit last longer? What happens once the envy wanes away? Emulation Approach: When you adore somebody and want to be like him or her, you may take up a job or profession that is similar to that of your hero or role model. The important question to consider here is “Will it fit your competence?“ Employment is for a living; but career is for fulfillment.  When you make a career choice, think of the long term! After all, switching careers is extremely challenging in our environment! Think about the aforementioned approaches when you are making the career choice. Also, remember that there are different perspectives to your career and what you achieve from it. This article was published in:  HR Mirror, Hans India  

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