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It is hard to own your career choices…but not difficult!

In our last blog we discussed about how different people influence our lives and our career choices and decisions. In this context, we have stated an example where a lady wants her daughter to study CA as her career, just to align with the family pattern even though her daughter is interested in engineering. Similarly, let’s take up some more examples that I have experienced recently, which proves the same. Choice of hobby: Here is another story of a teenager who wanted to take up dance as a hobby. I am not sure if he was inspired by Michael Jackson, but he definitely enjoyed dancing a lot. When he expressed his desire, his father did not like to see him jumping around on the stage; instead he asked him to pursue Carnatic vocal as a hobby. The teenager had a decent voice, but no interest. I wonder if the career choice will be a pleasure or pressure. Choice of career: Here is the story of a girl who completed her B Pharmacy in a local college. Soon after, she received a job offer to be a pharmacist in a progressive pharmacy retail chain. The job involved understanding the patent’s requirements, studying the prescription, selling medicines. Given her pharmacy background, she could do that well and she enjoyed the rapport with some of the aged people. Then one day, a distant relative happened to see her in the pharmacy. Since then she was worried. The reason was that he went back to the village and publicized to everybody that the girl was working in a store as a “counter girl” selling medicines. No one understood the depth of the job. Under pressure from the family, she had to resign from the job which she loved and enjoyed. Own it! The above all examples highlight the social pressure that one experiences in one’s careers and lives. Is it worth it? Should we always please others at the cost of displeasing ourselves? Is the social or parental pressure always negative? It is important to listen to all the views and suggestions from parents and our well wishers. Ultimately, if we can develop the inner strength to make choices and, more importantly, take responsibility for the same, we will evolve into confident and self made individuals. Of course, in the process, we need to be empathetic about others expectations from us, and try balancing to a possible extent. Excerpts from the article – It is hard to fully own your career choices!By: Dr.Raj, Published in HR Mirror, Hans India.Follow Dr.Raj on Twitter @drraj29.

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Three things that can make New Year resolutions work!

We have just stepped in to the New Year and the one topic that finds its way into most conversations these days is “New Year Resolutions”!!!. Having been a witness to many such conversations, have had the opportunity to hear some classic quotes over the years: Resolutions are for the irresolute My resolution is to have no resolution Why bother – every year we make & then break them While we ponder the above opinions, New Year resolutions still subtly find their way into our lives, reinforcing my personal belief that it is an innate human need to transform & welcome new beginnings with freshness! Yet with the best of intent….most of us seem to fail in keeping up the resolve. Some research into the lives of successful people have led me to believe that the below three things will help us in gaining that elusive self-discipline. Choose to be “choice- less”. The first forty days One step at a time Habit of being choice less:  An often read statement – “Man is the only living creature designed with facility of choice by nature”. This privilege is both a boon and a bane to humanity. It helps us choose resolutions and also ensures we choose to go back to our old ways. It is to be understood that it is the property of the mind to opt for the easier choice. For example: As the alarm goes off, you will notice the “mind talk” starts and between choosing to wake up to read and going back to sleep. Mind typically chooses the easier option…shuts the knob and sleeps! Mind is always in a state of conflict between the two choices. So generally we resist the conflict and forcefully go ahead and read for a few days, the very resistance to conflict itself becomes a form of conflict and we give up. The best way to overcome this is to become choice less in the aspect of the resolution that we have taken. So if the resolve is to get up early..the moment the alarm goes off even before the mind processes the choice to sleep or wake up…jump off that bed! Ensure you do this for….. The first forty days… It is scientifically proven that any resolution or task that is followed for forty days continuously will automatically turn into a habit. Someone who wakes up every morning, pours a cup of coffee and goes for a morning walk, in that order, has that pattern built in to his or her brain. So if we can exercise choice-less-ness for forty days first, we form a habit and chances are that the resolves taken become a part of our persona. One step at a time:  Research proves that having too many tasks to achieve diminishes productivity, leading to loss of focus and increase in stress. The solution for this is to put a significant number of tasks on hold and use focus and increased productivity to speed up the open task that is in hand. The result will be increased rate of success and self satisfaction. So the tip is not to have a long list of resolutions. Just pick one change – become choice-less about it – practice it for 40 days- make it a part of your persona and you are on your way to lead a disciplined life. Happy New Year resolutions! By: Mrs. Jaya Lakshmi, Sr. Consultant at HR Footprints &  Ms. Divya Shalini, Member at HR Footprints   Follow us on Twitter @hrfootprints

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Many approaches and one career

“While a job has so much of significance in our career and life, it is sometimes perplexing to see how people make career choices.” Everyone needs a job. Joblessness is unimaginable in our lives. Why do we need a job so badly? It could be due to the dire need to survive or to gain a social status to seek self-satisfaction. Those who are familiar with Abraham Maslow’s hierarchy of needs can understand the human motivation and how it keeps a person aspiring different things at different levels. When a person is jobless, he or she is desperate to get some job to make a living. However, it will be interesting to watch the same person getting dissatisfied after sometime in the same job ­ despite making perhaps more money. That is because the nature of the need has changed from mere living to something else. Such is the un-saturating urge of the human being to search for something more than what one has. And job seems to be the vehicle to fulfill various needs and varying needs! While a job has so much of significance in our career and life, it is sometimes perplexing to see how people make career choices. There are many approaches to a career. Let me narrate the story of Ravindra, a person that I met recently. Ravindra completed an MCA (Master of Computer Applications) with no idea as to where it would land him in his career. It has been four years since he did that and to date, he is yet to get any break in career. With every passing year, his confidence is getting affected seriously. I asked him as to why he chose MCA and if had a liking to computer programming.  He replied, “People told me that MCA will get me a job“. My inquiry followed: “Then why are you still looking for your first job after four years? “ “I did some data entry job earlier, but didn’t like it. So I quit and joined another course“ “What was that?“ “Railway recruitment exam course, and other government jobs“ “Why did you change your track?“ “I thought a government job would be secure; but I could not crack it“ “So, urgently you need a job! Then why don’t you widen your choice to include any job beyond computers?“ “Since I did an MCA, it will be nice if I can have a computer job“ I understood how he was trapped in too many contradictions and made his career a complex affair. See below the different approaches to a person’s career. As you go through, you can see which approach Ravindra had adopted. Also, you may find an approach that you followed or likely to follow. You may then think of the pros and cons of your approach. Educational Approach: In this approach, people often follow a rule ­ “Because I did this course, I need to join such job“. They do not question if the course that they did is indeed the right one for their career. Enthusiasm Approach: Here, it is the energy and passion of the person that drives the career choice. If one can choose an employment that fulfills their passion, then it surely is a blessing. It may not be the most rewarding monetarily, yet can give you immense satisfaction. External environment Approach: At different times different industries become fashionable, offering employment opportunities. They may not last forever, but they create a buzz for a few years. Many tend to follow this buzz and make career choices. They may lose shine once the industry goes out of fashion. Envy Approach: Some people choose jobs with an idea of proving a point to someone. It might be a parent who challenged, it might be a friend who insulted or it might be someone who grew faster than you. They inspire career choices. Will the grit last longer? What happens once the envy wanes away? Emulation Approach: When you adore somebody and want to be like him or her, you may take up a job or profession that is similar to that of your hero or role model. The important question to consider here is “Will it fit your competence?“ Employment is for a living; but career is for fulfillment.  When you make a career choice, think of the long term! After all, switching careers is extremely challenging in our environment! Think about the aforementioned approaches when you are making the career choice. Also, remember that there are different perspectives to your career and what you achieve from it. This article was published in:  HR Mirror, Hans India  

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