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Many approaches and one career

“While a job has so much of significance in our career and life, it is sometimes perplexing to see how people make career choices.” Everyone needs a job. Joblessness is unimaginable in our lives. Why do we need a job so badly? It could be due to the dire need to survive or to gain a social status to seek self-satisfaction. Those who are familiar with Abraham Maslow’s hierarchy of needs can understand the human motivation and how it keeps a person aspiring different things at different levels. When a person is jobless, he or she is desperate to get some job to make a living. However, it will be interesting to watch the same person getting dissatisfied after sometime in the same job ­ despite making perhaps more money. That is because the nature of the need has changed from mere living to something else. Such is the un-saturating urge of the human being to search for something more than what one has. And job seems to be the vehicle to fulfill various needs and varying needs! While a job has so much of significance in our career and life, it is sometimes perplexing to see how people make career choices. There are many approaches to a career. Let me narrate the story of Ravindra, a person that I met recently. Ravindra completed an MCA (Master of Computer Applications) with no idea as to where it would land him in his career. It has been four years since he did that and to date, he is yet to get any break in career. With every passing year, his confidence is getting affected seriously. I asked him as to why he chose MCA and if had a liking to computer programming.  He replied, “People told me that MCA will get me a job“. My inquiry followed: “Then why are you still looking for your first job after four years? “ “I did some data entry job earlier, but didn’t like it. So I quit and joined another course“ “What was that?“ “Railway recruitment exam course, and other government jobs“ “Why did you change your track?“ “I thought a government job would be secure; but I could not crack it“ “So, urgently you need a job! Then why don’t you widen your choice to include any job beyond computers?“ “Since I did an MCA, it will be nice if I can have a computer job“ I understood how he was trapped in too many contradictions and made his career a complex affair. See below the different approaches to a person’s career. As you go through, you can see which approach Ravindra had adopted. Also, you may find an approach that you followed or likely to follow. You may then think of the pros and cons of your approach. Educational Approach: In this approach, people often follow a rule ­ “Because I did this course, I need to join such job“. They do not question if the course that they did is indeed the right one for their career. Enthusiasm Approach: Here, it is the energy and passion of the person that drives the career choice. If one can choose an employment that fulfills their passion, then it surely is a blessing. It may not be the most rewarding monetarily, yet can give you immense satisfaction. External environment Approach: At different times different industries become fashionable, offering employment opportunities. They may not last forever, but they create a buzz for a few years. Many tend to follow this buzz and make career choices. They may lose shine once the industry goes out of fashion. Envy Approach: Some people choose jobs with an idea of proving a point to someone. It might be a parent who challenged, it might be a friend who insulted or it might be someone who grew faster than you. They inspire career choices. Will the grit last longer? What happens once the envy wanes away? Emulation Approach: When you adore somebody and want to be like him or her, you may take up a job or profession that is similar to that of your hero or role model. The important question to consider here is “Will it fit your competence?“ Employment is for a living; but career is for fulfillment.  When you make a career choice, think of the long term! After all, switching careers is extremely challenging in our environment! Think about the aforementioned approaches when you are making the career choice. Also, remember that there are different perspectives to your career and what you achieve from it. This article was published in:  HR Mirror, Hans India  

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Beginner? Do not get carried away!

During my first job in Mumbai, I had an interesting experience that taught me an important lesson in my career. Let me narrate the story in detail. If you are a beginner, you can relate. It was about 15 days into the job and I was still figuring out how things happen there and what I was supposed to do. Being the first job and far away from home, I was feeling lonely and was searching for people who I could be friendly with. I found a guy called Atul who was very friendly and caring. In addition, he could be my buddy as he knew in and out of that organisation. After all, Atul was eight year experienced in that place and i was just a beginner! Atul used to wish seniors that we might bump into in the corridors. They used to reciprocate with an occasional leg pulling ­ which I enjoyed very much! My inner feeling at that stage was: “When will I become so confident and comfortable with all?”. The organisation had a very huge campus and moving from one building to another required good long walk. As I was walking with Atul, he suddenly saw someone at a distance and gave a shout. The other person responded. They both conversed standing at a distance and speaking aloud. Again, my thought was, “When will I become so confident that people listen to me the way they do with Atul?“ One day, Atul told me that he would sneak out of office a couple of hours early. I curiously asked him about seeking permission to leave early. Carried away… His reply was very perplexing; he said, “Who will watch us in this vast campus? Just step out”. I envied Atul for the way he defined his own freedom. “When will I be so liberated that I could write my own rules?” (No card swiping or biometric system was prevalent during those days!) I continued to adore Atul and was getting more influenced by him. The way he related with people, the way he got his things done for him; the way he exercised his freedom…. I thought the workplace would be so nice the moment I become like Atul. My homesickness started to wane away! However, the story had a different twist! One morning, I joined Atul at the breakfast table (now you could imagine how emotionally dependent I was on Atul!). We finished our coffee and I was walking to the work desk. Atul said, “Let us go to the gate for a pan!”. It was already nine o clock in the morning and I was hesitant to walk with Atul. In his own style, Atul almost grabbed me out. It was 9.05 AM and we were at the gate. Atul was happily chewing the pan and chatting with others (how did he know so many people in the organisation? I was impressed once again). Someone offered him a cigarette and he was smoking away! I was simply a spectator – neither I chewed pan not smoked. It was 9.15 am and I was feeling very uncomfortable for not being at my desk. Realization… Exactly at that moment, I saw a company bus entering the organisation campus and my lady boss in it. I had an uncomfortable eye contact with her and I could read something not so pleasant in her expression. Finally, I reached my desk 25 minutes late and soon received a call from my lady boss ­ who was of my mother’s age. She spoke to me the way that was never before. “Remember, you are just 15 days old in this organisation; no one knows what exactly would be your performance; you need to earn a place professionally; if you follow the practices of people who are established and proven themselves, you will be wrong. They earned it over the years; you are a beginner, don’t get carried away!“ As I was struggling to receive such straight feedback, my boss continued in a caring voice. “Respect rules, until you earn your freedom. Respect seniors, until they give you space to get closer. Be formal, until people are informal with you. There is nothing wrong in being a little more appropriate at workplace, especially as a beginner. If you need to err, do so on the right side!” This article was published in:  HR Mirror Hans India

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